I am tired of being too kind, and sarcasm helps me a lot.
Sarcasm helps me hide my fears and mask my daily anxieties. It's an escape to me. I refer to it in defense of situations that change the way I perceive things.
When I'm sarcastic, I can insist on changing the ideas which I hold on to the most: “the least you believe in something, the easier you defend it”.
This style of speech forces me to work my brain. In fact, being sarcastic requires continuous efforts to try make people smile, laugh or sneer, or simply try to get them out of their tiring thoughts without hurting them, astonishing or shocking them.
Sarcasm is challenging.
One must have a delicate, broad and critical mindset to create a prompt and a positive moment. People around a sarcastic person should be able to enjoy these moments, feel lighter and forget them directly after a conversation.
To succeed at sarcasm, one should be authentic and true. You should be able - or even accept - to make a fool of yourself or to give a ridiculous impression. People should strictly not feel the negative criticism in you're sending, then you can easily be or feel accepted.
Succeeding at sarcasm also require a cool and serene personality, or at least pretending to have one. One can give simple events larger dimensions or amplify some painful situations to dilute their effects to later overcome them and notice that it can always be worse.
Sarcasm makes us forget the pain we're in.
On the contrary, it forces us to smile, to cope with our negative emotions, and to spread around us an air of freshness and happiness.
Sarcasm is another way for us to see things. It can be a mean of relaxation, a moment of peace to our brain. We tend to feel smart or interesting by trying to make people laugh and attract them to us - even if it was for a short while.
With every expression or situation sarcastically analyzed, we look for the looks, wait for the giggles and the reactions, we search for the wrinkles.
Sarcasm effectively helps people express their indirect criticism. A sarcastic person helps others by speaking loud what some people repeat to themselves in silence when they rarely dare to share their ideas for fear of sounding "mean" or "rude".
Being in the company of a sarcastic and humble person can be rewarding, especially when it comes to a person who knows how to keep the values, that does not exceed the limits and that is enormously sensitive. S/he will know how to put the adequate dose of laughter; s/he will stop at the right time and will spread all these positive vibes a friend craves for.
Everyone will smile when being around such person, and will always seek their presence to alleviate the heavy hearts. Isn’t is a better alternative to Sadcasm?